For kids

Achieve highest goals through discipline and obedience. Nothing was ever accomplished on this Earth without these two qualities. Be self disciplined and cultivate self control. Obey your inner consciousness and always be true to it. Don't be influenced by circumstances. If the circumstances are hostile, come to a safer zone immediately. Never give others a chance to cheat you up. Don't do anything which would make you feel ashamed of later. All your activities should make you feel happy eventually. God created your soul. Your mother & father created your body & brought you into this world. You create your own experiences in this life from the sum total experiences in your past lives. You have a definite purpose on this Earth. You are here for the evolution of your soul. You are not here to gratify yourself through excesses. You are not here to hate & fight with each other. Accumulation of material conveniences is not your duty. It is only a means to fulfill the purpose of your presence on Earth. So use this rare human life for a better future birth or into moksha from earthly existence.
Bhaskaran Vellakkad

Children are the gifts of God

Bring up your kids by never beating them up for any faults committed by them. The world is so cruel because many of the births are accidental by the result of cruel, loveless, unplanned union, and we have been bringing up those kids by punishing them physically. A hurt with a harsh word is thousand times worst than a hit with a fist. Never ever use such harsh words also to correct them.
It is not justifiable a 35 year old man physically hurting a 5 year old child even to correct the child. A rough look or a show of disgust is more than enough for a good child to be corrected. Indian culture is a culture of kindness. Indian culture teaches ahimsa, non injury, physically, mentally and emotionally. It preaches against
himsa, hurtfulness."To spare the rod is to spoil the child", is an uncivilized attitude. It's not Indian culture to beat the light out of the eyes of children, to beat the trust out of them, to beat the intelligence out of them and force them to go along with everything in a mindless way and wind up doing a routine, uncreative job the rest of their life, then take their built-up anger out on their children and
beat that generation down to nothingness. This is certainly not the culture of an intelligent future. Remember children are the gifts of God.

Bhaskaran Vellakkad

Live a life of purpose

Live a life of purpose. Every person was created and designed by God with a specific purpose. Everyone has unique gifts, talents, and abilities. The greatest thing you can do in life is to take those gifts, talents and abilities and use them to do something great. Never compare yourself with anyone, as there is no one exactly like you with all your abilities in this whole universe. Many things in this world are beyond our control, but only you can control the world within you. Your attitude is more important than your aptitude or skill in life. Having a good positive mental attitude will allow you to see things differently and will help you encourage others.See the positive side of every difficult circumstances in life. Our thoughts have tremendous power. If you sow a thought, you reap an action; if you sow an action, you reap a habit; if you sow a habit, you reap character; and if you sow a character, you reap a culture & destiny for a lifetime. What we continually think about today determines who we will become tomorrow. A person who does not love himself can not love any one. So you must cultivate good habits and be proud of yourself.Your words both written and spoken express your culture. You are the continuation of one of the greatest civilizations of the world. Your words should reflect that culture. So mind your words. The moments of today will pass away, but things & happiness that you put into the lives of others are the things that really matter in the later period of your life. Train yourself to forgive others regardless of what they've done to you or how they've hurt you, so that you will be mentally healthy always.
I wish you every success in all your endeavors in life.
Bhaskaran Vellakkad.

My Quotes

Those who love their religions more than God make others life miserable by seeking to cruel, aggressive & fanatic means.


"Become rich not to show the world your richness but to help those who are less privileged than you with it".